What is Anger ?

ေလာေလာဆယ္ ဘာပို႔စ္ တင္ရမယ္မွန္း မစဥ္းစားမိေသးတာနဲ႔ email ထဲက ေမႊေႏွာက္ျပီး မွတ္စရာသားစရာျဖစ္တယ္ ထင္တာေလးေတြကို တင္လိုက္ပါေၾကာင္း :)


Anger is something that causes you great pain, but it also has big effects on other people. I want to speak particularly to parents. Remember that you are modeling things for your children.

The most powerful model in any child's life is the same sex-parent. What are you showing? Are you showing a temper? Are you showing intolerance? Are you showing a violent side? Children pick these things up but they don't have a lot of word power, so they rely on perception. You may think that you're subtly angry or subtly hostile, but trust me, if you put that coffee cup down a little harder because you're upset with your partner, children sense that. If you slam the door a little harder, they sense that too.
Be careful what you're modeling, and remember it's more than just the words you speak.